Stop worrying about what you should do.
Worrying does not suit you and it will not suit you as a person who is about to say his or her vows during the day of the wedding and this is something that you ought to internalize and understand right off the bat. Remember that the wedding day is all about you and all about your partner. It doesn’t matter if it isn’t traditional or something that you are all too used to seeing based on what society has set out so far because the only level of satisfaction that you need to worry or think about in the first place would have to be your own or your partner’s. Try to go with the flow instead. It will help make things easier for you to have to handle and you will see that you will eventually enjoy yourself better somewhere along the way. Worrying will only put a dark cloud over the joyous event and occasion and it is something that you can really do without. Work with all of the verified professionals whom you can trust and who will surely be able to follow through on everything that you would like them to one way or the other. Work with a great same sex wedding photographer. Work with professional planners. Surround yourself with people who are great at what they do and you will really be able to make things happen for you and for your partner.
You can be spontaneous with the wedding party.
It doesn’t have to be anything overly rigid or structured. A same sex wedding is different in such a way wherein people aren’t really expecting tradition to be followed through with and this is something that you can set aside and out of the way right off the bat as much as you possibly can. Feel free to play around and to switch things up whenever you can in order for things to work out for you and for everything else that you planned out for the wedding. It will make you happier that way and there is a certain sense of satisfaction when you think about the wedding panning out just as you have always wanted them to. You can even get a little crazy if you want to. Go with your heart’s desires on this and things will surely work out to your every advantage.
Think about the outfits early.
Are you planning on wearing androgynous ensembles or are you playing to dress up a certain type of way? Whatever it is, you need to know or understand right out that those outfits need to be thought out well in advance in order for the details to pan out smoothly and seamlessly all across the board.
Be unique with the ceremony.
It’s alright if it is a little different or if you can sort of wing it while you are at it. You can play around as much as you would like to. Talk to your same sex wedding photographer about any inspirations or pegs that you might have and things will take a more interesting turn for the better.